Friday, July 28, 2006

Happy 26.5 Birthday to DietCoke Girl!

Today is my 26 1/2 Birthday and boy am I excited... If, by excited, I mean dumbfounded. "Old" isn't an adjective that conveys enough ageism to how I feel... "veija" sounds more like it... Thank you, spanish language, for accurately articulating what it is I'm feeling today.

Oddly enough, when I did I a google image search for my name + birthday, I got many pictures of dogs in party hats. Buggers. So, in lieu of that... I opted for the "monster with crown" because it seemed more appropriate.

Happy Birthday to Me! (Good thing I'm modest)

Monday, July 24, 2006

Perspective: (World Trade Center, the movie)

I just got back from seeing a free advanced screening of the movie, "World Trade Center." I wanted to see the movie, and I didn't want to see the movie- for reasons I don't think really need explaining. Simply put- was I ready to watch that day unfold, again, on a big screen?

Turns out, no- I wasn't ready. No one in that theater was... because how does one get ready for devastation like that? Sadly, then, my biggest motivation was that the tickets were free and so I figured, "Why not?" And just like that, I was off to a movie with CJ.

I have to say that I think the movie was beautiful, heartbreaking and achingly overwhelming. It would be impossible for it not to be- don't you think? I was worried that there'd be a political message; an anti-war/pro-war sentiment. I was worried that the clips of Bush would be mocked by the film or worse- that they'd be praised. I was worried it would exploit the whole attack. But none of this happened... or if it did, I certainly didn't notice it.

Instead, I was so sucked into this story- Sucked into the story of these two men that were 2 of the 20 people that were pulled, ALIVE, from the rubble... numbers 18 & 19. From the moment the shadow of the plane flying into the first tower flashed on screen, I cried... and I kept crying the entire length of the movie. I don't say that to discourage people from seeing the movie- I say it because I wanted to convey just how deeply it touched me.

There were only two questionable parts in the movie that I disliked:
1. Maria Bello's "Donna" had on v. fake blue contacts that really irritated me... did they have to look so fake? Someone promise me that was intentional because it was v. distracting.
2. A Jesus montage... I disliked its hokey-ness v. much the instant I saw it... but luckily, the kitchyness was addressed later thereby redeeming itself.

I haven't read a review and I don't know what the critics are saying about this movie- but I really, really, REALLY needed to see something like this at this point in my life. It obviously puts everything properly in perspective, and perspective is something I certainly needed right now.

I worried about not having a job, and now that I have a job... I worry about not finding the perfect apartment, about my application for the apartment I like going through, about Ebbitt's eventual death, about the length of my hair (is it too long? it's all I have!), about where I'm going to park my car, about how I'll get to work (which route to take?), about which grad school program is right for me, about whether or not to get movers, about STILL not having access to my summer wardrobe... and so on, and so forth.

And now I can see that it'll all work out- because it always does. Because there is so much out there that is bigger and badder and sadder and meaner than anything my mind can conjure up. Because I'll be able to pay my rent and stay fed and still have fun with friends. I might not own my own house now- or be able to go out and "buy something expensive" when I'm feeling defeated- but I'll be just fine. I'm MJ- and I've survived much worse. And there are so many awful things out there happening to so many good, hardworking, and loving people that all I can do is my best to live MY life (with MY salary and MY abilities) the best I can.

(Yes- I'm a little fired up.)

I'm getting all "Dear Diary" on y'all and I apologize for that... but I just feel so much crazy emotion about this movie that I wanted to write it down and save it so I can always remember how I felt. Which is the purpose of a blog anyway... right?

It's liberating, really, to know that I don't have to take myself so seriously... and to relish the fact that I'm-doing-just-fine-thank-you. I'm terribly lucky and fortunate, I'm loved and appreciated, and I'm happy. With a cute shih-tzu. Named Ebbitt. Is there really anything else?

Raining in Baltimore













And now for the weekend wrap-up:
  1. Sushi & Snoballs... Maryland at its best
  2. Apartment searching is a bitch, isn't it?
  3. New favorite place to chow (read/drink/chill) in DC: Busboys & Poets
  4. Hot hot heat turns into wet wet weather... drenched & mesmerized by Common's performance at Artscape (sometimes Baltimore is the best)
  5. Did someone say Mojitos? I think I did, about 5-6 times...
  6. Best quote of the night, RP: "So, where do people go to drink when they are OVER 21?" Answer: NOT Grumpy's (Federal Hill)
  7. Nardin is NOT Nichols (or St. Joe's, for that matter)
  8. Sunday morning, and I'm sporting a wee bit o' a headache and I'm grumpy beyond words. In fact, I'm downright delightful...
  9. ...Coffee & Diet Coke makes it all better
  10. 72 degree weather! I will sleep beautifully tonight (if/when I get to bed)
An excellent weekend indeed... but a bitch of a week lies ahead.

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

A Direct Hit

Cartoon by Stuart Carlson and courtesy of (I mean, not that I asked them) Slate Magazine.


...Current Events for my current-affairs-challenged friends...


Sunday, July 16, 2006

Turning Two



Now THAT's what I'm talking about...

(1) paisley swim-trunks... check
(2) plaid shirt to match said swim-trunks... check
(3) requisite candy ring-pop... check
(4) moonbounce... check
(5) beer (miller lite)... check
(6) baltimore humidity... check

Turning 2 has never been so sweet... Happy Birthday Ben!

Monday, July 10, 2006

Fenwick Island, NY Times Style


Friday's New York Times ran a small article about Fenwick Island (Delaware) and, being the ever-educator I try to be, I decided to 'borrow' it and cut and paste it onto my blog for my friends to read. It's not that great, but decidedly exciting that Fenwick Island is finally getting mad props instead of playing second and third fiddle to Bethany Beach and Rehoboth... great beaches, no doubt, but overplayed. Totally overplayed.

(You can click here to read the article directly from the NYTimes, or just read what I cut and pasted below. Probably illegally, but ahh well.)

Pleasures of the Shore, With Little of the Froth

by Dave Caldwell, The New York Times

A WHITE stone lighthouse, 87 feet tall and 147 years old, stands silently at the southern tip of Fenwick Island, no more than 10 feet north of the border with Maryland. The lighthouse is the entry to what locals call "slower lower" Delaware.

Unlike its noisier neighbor, Ocean City, Md., and the growing Delaware coast resort towns like Rehoboth Beach, Fenwick Island has continued to lure second-home buyers with not much more than the promise of peace and quiet on summer weekends.

Perched on a spit of sand between Little Assawoman Bay and the Atlantic Ocean, Fenwick Island is not that big or that populous. It does not offer a lot of modern creature comforts, either, but full-time and part-time residents see that as a good thing.

"We still don't have a Starbucks here," said Jerean Adkins, a real estate agent who grew up on Fenwick Island. But there is a modest off-beach boardwalk near the Fisher's caramel-corn stand and the Viking miniature golf course (with a steam-breathing dragon).

The beach itself is clean, wide and uncluttered. Besides lounging in the sun, residents can sail, kayak, bicycle, ride water scooters, skim-board, windsurf and go crabbing and surf fishing. Those who have a need for a big boardwalk can find it about 10 miles south in Ocean City.

"We used to vacation in Maine almost every summer, but Maine is too far away," said Debbie Ferry, a resident of West Chester, Pa., who just bought a four-bedroom house on a pond west of town with her husband, David. "We still wanted that same feeling."

Fenwick Island residents seem to enjoy brewing their own coffee, taking a morning cup out to a back porch that overlooks the bay or the ocean, then quietly pondering the unruffled beauty of the scene and, perhaps, the meaning of the world.

"Fenwick Island has retained its charm — its old-time charm," said Richard Chavatel, a builder from Timonium, Md., who with his wife, Marty, owns a six-bedroom second home on the mainland just west of Fenwick Island proper.

The Scene

Fenwick Island and Bethany Beach, Del. — on the same barrier island as Ocean City — are known as the quiet resorts. Fenwick Island State Park is between Fenwick Island and Bethany Beach.

The incorporated portion of Fenwick Island is small, and when residents refer to Fenwick Island, they're often speaking of the unincorporated area of the island to the south and the mainland to the immediate west.

The Coastal Highway, or Route 1, is Fenwick Island's main drag. It runs north-south and splits the community in two. Lining the highway are most of Fenwick Island's restaurants, beach shops and souvenir stores.

There are plenty of restaurants on Fenwick Island, including the Fenwick Crab House, Dirty Harry's II (where pork and sauerkraut is the Saturday night special) and Mancini's Brick Oven Pizzeria. Ocean City offers plenty of alternatives.

Bunting Avenue, a block east of the Coastal Highway, is an approach to the rambling beachfront homes — many of which sell for more than $1 million. Apartment buildings squat on the other side of the avenue.

Route 54 intersects the Coastal Highway near the Fenwick Island Lighthouse and runs west, linking motorists to Route 113, which circumvents the more crowded Delaware beach towns to the north. Most of the recent development is off Route 54.

Pros

Residents say the beach is rarely crowded, perhaps because the beachfront is lined with homes, not shops. Parking is limited. Residents of the Town of Fenwick Island receive one parking pass and can buy additional passes.Daily parking for nonresidents is $5 on weekdays and $10 on weekends. A visitor's parking permit for mid-May to mid-September is $300 per car. Beachside parking in the state park and unincorporated areas requires another permit.

"On any holiday weekend — Memorial Day, July 4, Labor Day — I don't ever see a car from my house," said Donna Hughes, a full-time resident of Wilmington, Del., who figures she spends 40 weekends a year at the three-bedroom house she owns with her fiancé, Steve Dineen, in the Keen-Wik Sound development. "You don't even know it's a holiday."

Ms. Adkins, the real estate agent, who learned to ride a bike on the dirt roads (now paved) of Fenwick Island, said that the state has never hesitated to improve the infrastructure to accommodate growth. But "Delaware's a small state," she laughed. "There's only so much we can stand."

Cons

Those who have bought second homes say they would like to see Route 54 widened to handle traffic at the intersection of Route 1 on summer weekends.

They say they would also like more cultural activities, a new supermarket or two and a few new restaurants. But the lack of amenities is part of the trade-off of having a home on Fenwick Island.

Within view of the southern tip of Fenwick Island, the Coastal Highway in Ocean City is lined with motels, service stations and chain restaurants. Fenwick Island residents say they want new businesses, but they also do not want to risk losing the community's laid-back atmosphere.

Referring to other Delaware beach towns, Ms. Hughes said, "You just can't find a spot on the beach in many of those places."

The Real Estate Market

Don Conaway of Seashore Realty on the island said that until last winter, when interest rates began to rise, the Fenwick Island real estate market was the best in the 30 years he has been in the business. But, he said, second homes have just been priced too high recently.

"There's always a correction that goes on," Mr. Conaway said. "Sellers have got to make a correction. If something's priced right, it'll sell."

Real estate is still expensive because much of the land in the area has been developed. Ten years ago, Mr. Conaway said, an undeveloped oceanfront lot would have sold for $250,000. Now, the asking price for the same lot would be $2.5 million, he said. The current asking price for a 50-by-100-foot lot on the Coastal Highway is $1 million, he said.

Ms. Adkins estimated that an inland four-bedroom house that would have sold for $200,000 a decade ago would now sell for $450,000 to $500,000. In January, she helped to sell an undeveloped lot on the bay for $550,000; about 10 years ago it went for $150,000.

Growth has spread to the west. Bayside is a two-year-old golf community developed by the Carl M. Freeman Companies four miles from the Town of Fenwick Island. It has a Jack Nicklaus course partly surrounded by detached houses, town houses and condominiums.

Thirty-four floor plans are available on the 867-acre tract. A two-bedroom condominium sells in the upper-$300,000's, and single-family houses sell for $525,000 for the least expensive four-bedroom to $1 million for the most-expensive five-bedroom. Shuttles are available to the beach.

Black & Tan: A Weekend in Review

This weekend was tres, tres chic... and by chic, I mean "weekend-traveler-from-DC-chic"-- Who knew the Delaware coast (Dela-where?) was getting so trendy. Go back to the Hamptons, you dolts.

Anyway... here's the round-up:
* Spent the weekend in Fenwick Island, DE with RL

* Discovered the joys of a roasted garlic bulb and copious amounts of bread (Mancini's)

* Indulged my neurotic tendencies (with an assistant this time)... and layed out intricate plans for escape from the beach cottage (should neighbors decide to come inside for a 4am nightcap)

* The Sands Motel hosted it's first ever U.S. Senate conference call... Oddly enough, this experience was lost on the locals

* Dined at Rehoboth's new Irish Pub... name not remembered... and got buzzed off of one, ONE, O-N-E beer... sad

* Saw "The Devil Wears Prada" and enjoyed it far more than I liked the book... Anne Hathaway was/is so refreshing, Meryl Streep was killah, and Adrian Grenier is tres, tres adorable

* Enjoyed Delaware finest radio stations ("My name is Marcie, and I'm a Cancer... blah, blah, blah, blah... something, something "answer")

* Royal Farms coffee and Berger cookies for breakfast

* Beautiful, sunny day on beach... with which I totally tanned/burned my back without realizing it... Damn the comfortable tummy position of optimal beach-book-reading...

* Went SWIMMING! Failed to see sharks, sting-rays or other ocean-dwellers

* Grudgingly drove back... the lack of traffic, however, was enjoyable (NOT enjoyable: the "Pete Sessions" and "GWBush" election stickers on the SUV in front of us)

All-in-all... Successful in every aspect. Life is good.

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Oy with the Poodles Already!

I just feeling a list-making mood coming on... so here we go:


  • iHeart that I can watch the World Cup games live... and iHeart (even more) the fact that latin soccer players are so hott (two "t"s intended).
  • This 4th of July was better than I could have anticipated... therefore, iHeart old friends and St. Paul's School (for boys... not to be confused with St. Paul's School for Girls).
  • iHeart Gilmore Girls (for expressions such as, "Oy with the poodles already", among others)
  • iHeart Baltimore, MD: No joke... it so doesn't get the credit it deserves. While walking from Canton to Fells Point on the 4th (parking was a bitch), my friend and I noted how awesome it was that those with waterfront views of the harbor let any old passers-by sit on their property and take in the fireworks... and some went so far as to offer blankets, chairs and BOOZE. Clearly, Natty Boh: this is Baltimore, after all. Anyway, as we hurried along, my friend said, "This is definitely not the stuff you think of when you hear the word 'Baltimore'- hell, I don't even think of this stuff," and it got me thinking... poor little Baltimore- you got one bad rap.
(Ok, back to the World Cup... where I'm hoping Portugal will kick some French butt)

Monday, July 03, 2006

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia


This is the most brilliant TV show ever. Ok, maybe not ever, but it is so close to numero uno that it's totally worth mentioning on my blog. FX done some good by keeping this show around for season 2. I love that it's raunchy, un-PC, and clever in it's intricacies... much like the dearly departed Arrested Development. And the title... come on! It doesn't get much better than that...

Saturday, July 01, 2006

Julio esta aqui!

Horray for July!

27 days 'til my 1/2 birthday... I'm just sayin'.